Cleanliness and order often cause us well-being. It is normal that we all like to tidy up or clean our things in a certain way, but there are people who make this task an obsession and generate in their entourage problems of life together.
These people are maniacs of cleanliness and order, which make these concepts an end and not a means. They end up being uncompromising with themselves and their surroundings, because they leave nothing to others, do not allow them to clean up, let alone dirty.
Cleanliness and order
The housekeeping maniacs clean the house every day, keep things always in the same place, and feel uncomfortable if they find a speck of dust.
They constantly review the tasks that others perform, and no one does better than them. They even get exasperated and make life impossible for those around them.
This mania, which at first seems positive, can become an obsessive compulsive disorder when it makes slaves and creates problems in our environment.The road that separates mania from obsession is sometimes shorter than we think.
If this obsession prevents us from living a normal life, if we invest a lot of time in its implementation and we feel annoyed because things are out of place, we are on the path of obsessive disorder which requires professional help.
Curiously, although it is one of the most widespread manias,in most cases, order and cleanliness maniacs are not aware that this obsession has become a problem.
For those who are at their side and continually suffer from their criticism and their demands, the common life becomes unbearable and every day becomes a real hell.
How to help this kind of maniacs?
This kind of pathology usually begins in adolescence or adulthood. Unlike other disorders, most of the time, this mania is associated with a personality trait rather than a problem.
Moreover with the intention to help and reduce the anxiety of the maniac, the family submits to its rules, obeys and keeps things in order and cleanliness that it claims, but in the medium term, this " submission "is prejudicial to the manic person.
The most important thing to help the person who is suffering from this problem is to make him understand that his obsession has become an obsession and is also depriving the people around him of freedom.
Going to see a professional would be the best option if the manic person is unable to reduce the anxiety and stress caused by not performing the tasks that she has imposed herself.
The goal of going to see a psychologist in these cases is that the person can successfully free himself from this burden to improve his life and consequently the life of those around him.