Misfortune has become a fairly common reality in our everyday lives. You just have to go out on the street to realize that most people go about their daily activities in a monotonous way.
Indeed, we can read fatigue, disappointment and resignation on most faces that receive us in the offices or other buildings through which we spend every day. But the worst is to see the reflection of our face in the mirror, and realize that it sends us the same feeling of sadness.
Generally, when you realize that you are unhappy, the first thing you want to do is switch to the other extreme and change your life. How to go about it ?
1. Identify the cause of your misfortune
Misfortune is the feeling that comes when you are not where you want to be. That is, when one is aware that one would like to be doing something else, spend time with other people, or just run after our dreams.
The first step is to identify the causes of your misfortune so that you can make the decision to change to achieve what you want.
2. Define who you are
You have become aware that neither the things you have nor the work you do can make you happy. But, once one is aware of this, what to do?
It is possible that you take a long time to find an answer to this question, that your reflection awakens in you many doubts and other fears, and that finally, you consider that it is much easier to not change anything and to continue to live the same way.
Of course, changing nothing is perhaps simpler. But still ask yourself the question: Is it better to be content with what you have, or to make the effort that will make you happy?
3. Make your dreams come true
When you have specifically determined what are the things that will make you happy, then it will be time to come up with a plan that will make it happen.
For example, if you do not flourish in your professional life and want to start your own business, it is best not to resign immediately, but to take the time to create your business during your free time while continuing to work. in parallel.
This is to be happy, without jeopardizing your well-being or your stability.
4. Pursue your dreams one after the other
If reaching where you are today has been a gradual process, making the changes in your life that will make you happy, it will be an equally progressive process.
Give yourself time to change every aspect of your life one by one and enjoy the happiness it can bring you. If you go too fast and you burn the steps, you may well be hurtful in your words and have serious relationship problems, both in your relationship with your friends.
Misfortune never comes alone
Every decision we make has repercussions on our lives. Our happiness and our misfortune depend only on us and our determination to lead the life we really aspire to, or to get out of the routine when the need arises.