Lies on social networks, just like in other areas of our lives, are constantly invading us.In fact, several branches of science explain the effect of lies in everyday communication.
Sociologists, anthropologists, psychologists, physicists and mathematicians have analyzed, from their point of view,the function of lies in these environments and how they affect us,in addition to studying the parts of the brain that are involved in the act of lying.Let's deepen this idea.
A study led by Rafael A. Barrio of the Institute of Physics of INAM revealed thatthe lies on social networks happen in the usual way,as in any type of human communication.
This is an international searchwhich was carried out through the application of a dynamic model of opinion in a huge telephone network that includes the European Community.It aims to examine the role of lies on social networks.
The lies on social networks are almost daily. The novelty is that, through a mathematical model, it is possible to determine why we are lying.Share
The analysis of couples interactions has developed through the use of an organized system of calls to seven million phones. Thus, according to the authors: "in this work, we focus onthe impact that lies have on the coherence and structure of social networks ".
The study points out thatlies are a substantial element in maintaining the virtuality of relationships between people."Even though, as children, we have been taught that not telling the truth is a bad thing and that we must act honestly, we learn to lie, sometimes in a sophisticated way." We never stop doing so in all types of human society, something that other primates like chimpanzees do, "Barrio said.
Types of lies on the networks
In their articleEffects os Deception in Social Networks,the authors of this study inform us of the existence of two types of lies on social networks:
- White or prosocial lies
- Black or antisocial lies
Studies in the United States reveal that during a half-hour conversation, one can lie up to nine times.Share
White lies have a positive and innocent connotation, while black lies have a harmful and offensive connotation.The former are normally issued for good reason and do not adversely affect the individual. On the other hand, the latter are pronounced with a perverse purpose in order to harm the receiver and to be beneficial to the transmitter.
Among the findings, published in the journalProceedings of the Royal Society B.,the scientists found that:
- Lies on social networks, white or prosocial, balance, unite society,offer a diversity of opinions to the virtual collective and help maintain broad social relationships
- On the other hand,black or antisocial lies-egoists and helpful to the one who emits them- fracture the links, promote mistrust and are harmful because they destroy the network by breaking the links. People feel cheated
"A lie is a lie, no matter how many times it's repeated."
The great invention of primates is sociability and, with it, deception.Our brains can handle more relationships between peers with lies. If a person were honest all the time, his connections would be fewer. It's like a technique we use to connect with more people at the same time.
As time goes by and the more the network conforms to its balanced community structure. People do not lie less but more. Although it is true thatthe number of antisocial lies tends to disappear,while prosocial lies increase singularly.
This effect is quantitatively consistent with studies in schools.The more children grow up, the more lies they tell.In the youngest, there are many antisocial lies that disappear as they grow up. But, at the same time, prosocial lies are increasing.
"There is nothing wrong with telling a bad lie when we are defending a good truth."
I lie but I do not isolate myself
Totally honest people run the risk of being isolatedbecause those who speak only the truth can hurt the most susceptible. These people are characterized by a certain withdrawal and a low number of friends.They are in the habit of saying what they think, without fearing the opinion of others about this comment which, in general, is frowned upon or inappropriate for many. Therefore, being honest is not always ideal from a social point of view. However, these people receive the respect and trust of others. Honesty therefore remains a virtue.
We can not say that men are liars. Let's say we use the lie at a specific moment, depending on the circumstances.The reason we lie is because we are immersed in a society.We interact constantly with groups of people and we want to make the most of it socially and emotionally.
There are many good things behind this new form of human communication, and others that are not so positive. The worst point of social networks is thatwe are so disconnected from ourselves that our story can be told by falseand not by real experiences. These experiences are what gives value to our memories.