"The master says: the best things in life are not obtained by force:
You can force yourself to eat,
But you can not force yourself to feel hungry;
You can force someone to lie down,
But you can not force him to sleep;
You can force someone to hear you,
But you can not force him to listen to you;
You can force someone to kiss you,
But you can not force him to desire you;
You can force someone to smile,
But you can not force him to laugh;
You can force someone to help you,
But you can not force him to love you. "
(Good fortune) Alex Rovira.
Currently all our feelings are governed by fear.Our most spontaneous and sincere emotions (kissing, loving, dreaming, crying, laughing, etc.) vary and become weaker because they are not always shared in return.
Our feelings vary so much that sometimes we impose them. We force others to change their behavior (to listen to us, to accept us, to help us, to comfort us, to smile at us, etc.) so much so that in the In most cases, all that is harvested is contempt, ignorance and the distance from our surroundings.
This fear that leads us to doubt is the same that makes us impose our will on others. As if being right made us stronger and stronger. However, the one who gets what he wants by force is the other way around.
Learn to favor tenderness, the ability to be kind, gentle, to accept differing opinions and not to impose one's own.
The art of living should be something so much simpler, so let everyone live as he sees fit, without rancor, without imposing anything on his loved ones.