Succeed in listening to others
Take a total disregard of the environment you are in, stop interrupting the person you are talking to to tell him that he has happened to you the same way, look at this person in the eyes
Pay attention to his gestures and facial expressions, and how his breathing changes according to the feeling that he wants to express.
You will realize that listening is more than just hearing the words that are thrown in the air.
Listening to others, you can understand all that others want to tell you, all those things that can not always be said in words, because sometimes there are no words to describe certain emotions, and that they can only be expressed with the eyes and the gestures.
You will be able to empathize because you put yourself in the other person's shoes, listen to him, and understand how he feels.
You will understand that when a person needs you to listen to it, they do not necessarily want to know what happened to you or how you feel; what she wants is for you to understand how she feels.
To listen is not to hear; when we listen, we do it with our brain, with our soul.
Speak less and listen more
Have you ever wondered why you have two ears and one mouth? To speak less, and listen more!
Listen to others, pay attention to the people who speak to you so that they feel that they are being listened to and they will feel understood.
You will see that you have everything to gain by doing so.
And you, do you know how to listen?