We all know people around us who constantly complain, but who refuse to change. Complaining when something goes wrong is completely natural. But, when the problem is always the same, what needs to be changed is the approach, not the thing in question.
If something does not work, and we continue to do the same thing, it will never work out. If we want changes in our lives, our actions too must evolve.
Take someone who has a group of friends with whom they go out on a regular basis, but some things do not sound right: they often arrive late, are not very responsible, and when they plan something it is not surprising that they cancel at the last minute, without giving others time to plan other activities.
And this person complains a lot, because she is embarrassed by the situation. The question one can ask is, why does not she try to meet new people?
This person can appreciate his friends, think they are great people, but if their way of looking at life is radically different from his own, it can generate a lot of tension and frustration.
It is often difficult to change, leave what you know to start something new, be it at work, relationships or friendships.
But if something does not satisfy you, it is worth exploring new paths. Otherwise, you will constantly suffer all the inconveniences that you are disturbed, such as the irresponsibility of the friends of the person in our example, and end up no longer taking pleasure in doing what you do.
By constantly giving new opportunities to his friends, this person will certainly go from disappointment to disappointment, without anything that disturbs him evolve one day.
You are going to enter a vicious circle in which you are going to be more and more permissive, and you will find excuses for incorrect behaviors that still hurt and frustrate you.
After a while, the frustration will take over and you will realize that these things that bother you must be eliminated from your life.
You will then be able to enjoy new moments, other people or different things, which suit you better, which are more adapted to you and simply make you happier.
If you change in your actions, in your way of seeing things, you can find situations that suit you.
If you wait for the changes come from outside, you can wait a long time. Everyone must take responsibility, because things do not change by themselves.
We can not blame other people, and make them feel guilty about who they are. In life, there is an infinity of opportunities. If you are in a situation that does not please you, start looking around to explore other avenues.
Many people are stuck in jobs that they do not like, in friendships that bring them nothing positive, in marriages in which there is no love, and their daily life is a nightmare.
To start all over again is hard work that requires a lot of consistencybut that is well worth it. Keep in mind that if you do not take the initiative to change something, it will not change on its own.
Destiny is not written, it changes according to our actions. There is an endless world of possibilities waiting for you, enjoy and do not resign yourself to support what does not make you happy.