Just being kind, grateful or generous can help you not only improve the lives of those around you, but yours too. Take an example: you are in a store. If you thank the seller for his service in a low voice and almost inaudible, he / she vYou will certainly answer in the same tone.
On the other hand, if you speak with a clear voice and smile, the salesperson will remember you as a kind person and will keep a positive memory of your passage. Indeed, your actions and attitudes have an influence not only on yourself, but also on your surroundings. What you release will be exponentially returned.
Nothing's easier, but yet, it's something that many forgetand so it is good to remind sometimes. A positive attitude towards life is communicative; that is why if a friend feels bad, you have to support him / her with optimism, telling him that each problem has a solution, and that changes or other disagreements can also be positive.
It is not always easy to be pleasant
Sometimes we go through difficult times, so it's not easy to be nice to others. In those moments, we have to talk with our loved ones, those people who will always support us whatever happens. They can help us see this light at the end of the tunnel, light that we can not see for ourselves.
Be nice because you want to
Show yourself kind to others when life does not seem to smile, it's complicated … but not impossible. If you do not smile at life, then nothing will change … and, to smile at life, the secret is to expect nothing in return, and to be content to be kind. That's all.