I am the only one who can change my life
Certain aspects of our way of being, of our behavior, of our physical image, of our life can not be modified under any circumstances. It is totally ridiculous to suffer psychologically because of aspects that we will never be able to change, no matter how much time passes.
In these cases, it is best to accepting with all our flaws and weaknesses, and being able to tell the difference between what we can change and what we can not change.
These are lessons that we must constantly repeat in our heart of hearts in order to improve our self-esteem so that we can appreciate the other virtues and innate qualities we all possess.
When we feel that something in our surroundings we do not like, and if we have the power to remedy it, the best for us is to use all the means at our disposal, as well as to engage all our will, to change this. thing.
Sooner or later, a break will occur, and the frustration of having accepted harmful or bad situations for us will disappear.
Resignation is one of those dangerous situations. It acts like a moving sand which, if we end up resigning ourselves, engulfs us in continual inner dissatisfaction. Moreover, this feeling will only undermine our self-esteem, and will create a certain disdain for ourselves.
Our silhouette, the color of our eyes, just like our past are elements that are difficult to modify. If we are to learn to accept these aspects, we must also force ourselves to obtain what is most valuable to us in order to live a life without trouble and without a cloud.
We must also guide our opportunities to help them develop at their best, and live in harmony with how we feel deep inside ourselves, changing our behavior or lifestyle if we are not satisfied.
When we are ourselves, it means that we show ourselves in front of others without worrying about what they think, without being afraid of criticism or being rejected.
But above all, being ourselves means that we have achieved some harmony, and that we are finally proud of being what we need to be.
We feel more courageous because we choose without fear what direction to take in our path.