"You have to grow from the inside to the outside. No one can instruct you, no one can make you spiritual. He is no other teacher than your own soul. "– Swami Vivekananda –
The decade of twenties is full of change, but that of the thirties is the one that marks the beginning of the adult stage as such.
Here are the lifestyle habits to take to live the third decade of your life successfully.
1. Stop worrying about what others think
One thing you need to learn as quickly as possible is that the opinion of others is not important.
You can not establish your happiness or your way of being in life according to what others think. Rather, it reveals that you need a lot of attention.
It's time to focus on your life and do what you need to get the results you want.
In the end, the people around you also have a life and worries to manage.
"Only the brave knows how to forgive … A coward never forgives; it's not in its nature. "– Laurence Sterne –
Forgiveness is something very important in our life. At age 30, you will be confronted with more or less serious situations that can affect your social life and your relationships.
This does not mean that you have not had problems before, but from now on, they will surely be a little harder.
It is important to let go of everything that has hurt you and to learn to forgive. This is the key to a healthy adult life and sincere relationships.
3. The responsibility
Stop justifying yourself and become a responsible adult.Share
In most countries, the majority is reached at 18 years of age. However, the thirties is when we acquire the most responsibilities.
When you take responsibility for your actions and their consequences, you are just starting to direct your life.
Never forget that responsibility applies to all aspects of life: relationships, work, spirituality, etc.
4. Save money
"The richest man is the steward, the poorest is the miser."– Chamfort –
Energy, money and time are three things that you must start saving for a more productive life.
We live in a world that teaches us that you can have what you want when you want it.
However, the reality is very different. If until now you've spent every penny you've earned or have bad sleep habits, it's time to fix it.
Know that the present moment is the most important. But one day, the future will point the tip of his nose and you will not be ready.
5. Learn to surround yourself with the right people
How are your friends behaving? Do they have a good influence or are you with them only to feel part of a group?
This is a very delicate aspect because we do not always accept the fact that we are all looking for attention. Friends must be supportive in bad times and an ally in good ones.
If the friends you have chosen are not good for you, do not be afraid to accept it. You do not have to cut the bridge definitively, but do not focus on this friendship anymore.
You can maintain relationships and start others, more adequate.
6. Accept that some things may go wrong
Everyone knows the good and bad times. Sometimes good things happen even to people we think are bad.
The most important thing is to understand that no one conspires against you to make your life difficult. Life is accepting hard times and learning to do with them.
7. Enhance important relationships
"We do not know the love that a parent can feel, until we become parent in turn."-Henry Ward Beecher-
During adolescence and the early years of youth it is not uncommon for us to get away from our family and some of our friends. It's part of the evolutionary process and you do not have to feel guilty about that.
Now that you are coming of age, it's time to value these relationships and reconnect. You do not have to be with these people all the time, but you may want to flourish or "renew" those relationships. In the long run, these relationships will be vital for you to live a fulfilling life.
A successful person in life does not just have money, it is surrounded by people who flourish.
The 30 years are an incredible step, are you ready to live them fully?